春节临近,你是否已经将钱包装得鼓鼓的,随时准备“衣锦还乡”?还是在思惆着怎样揣着为数不多的钞票强装得体地回家?大家都想做前者,但是生活逼得很多人无奈成为后者。
The Spring Festival is approaching. Have you packed your money and got ready to "return home gloriously"? Or are you wondering how to pretend to go back home decently with the limited money? Everybody wants to be the former, but life drives many people helplessly as the latter.
我的一个业务员跟我说,这个周末为了回工厂催单,自己也下到生产线上帮忙生产,和工人们一起赶单到凌晨12点,下班后他拖着疲惫的身躯打车回家。司机问他:“加班加到这个时候啊?”他说:“是啊。。。”司机继续发问:“是做广告行业的吧?年尾很多广告公司都特别忙,这个钟数接到的客人都是做广告的。”粉丝苦笑地说:“是吗,呵呵,我不是做广告的。”司机大叔饶有兴趣继续问:“那就是那些做外贸的,帮人家订柜子出货的,赶着帮人家出货那些来着。”粉丝说:“是啊,差不多…”看到他一副有气无力的样子,司机大叔识趣地停止发问。
A salesman fans told me that this weekend he went back to the factory for pushing order and he also worked on the production line till 12a.m. with the workers. He took a taxi home tiredly. The driver asked him: “Do you work overtime till now? “ “Yes...” said the fans. The driver kept asking: “Do you do the advertising? A lot of advertising companies are particularly busy at the bottom of the year. I have picked up many customers doing advertising at this time.” The fans said wryly: "Really? Ha ha, I am not." The driver got interested and asked: “So you must do the foreign trade. Those who help make the shipment and ship out the goods. “ “Yes, almost...” said the fans. Seeing the faint boy, the driver stop asking judiciously.
他跟我说,回家之后,他躲在被窝里哭了。因为太累了,身体太累,心也太累了。回想起自己一年到头辛苦一整年,体面的生活过不上,春节回家也要没能带上几个钱回去给父母。别人做业务做得风生水起,自己如此萧条,却做得比任何人都多,比任何人都累。对生活有种“累觉不爱”的无力感和无奈。更不知道自己辛苦工作的意义何在。
The fans told me he cried in the quilt after back home because he is too tired, both his body and heart. Recalling his tough days in the whole year, he was so dispointed that he still couldn’t live a decent life or earn his family a better life while other salesmen had done so well in sales. He did more than others did. He felt helpless and “too tired to love” towards life. He didn’t know the meaning of his hard work.
这样子的迷茫出现在不少人心中,说是迷茫,说白了其实是对命运不公的埋怨。埋怨改变不了现状,但却可以改变你的人生,让你活得消极和焦虑。很多成功的人他们不是没有狼狈过,他们也埋怨过,但是他们更深知真正能改变人生的只有自己,那个一往无前永不放弃的自己,那个积极向上的自己。
Such confusion lies in many people’s mind. Actually it is a kind of complaint about the unfair fate. Complaints do not change the status, but they can change your life, letting you live negatively and anxiously.Many successful people have gone through the tough time. They did complain once. But they know that it does no help for changing their life. Only themselves, the never give up persons, the positive persons that can help.
每个背井离乡在外打拼的人都不容易,但是我们要努力将这份不容易变成值得。请相信,在奋斗的道路上你并不孤单,因为很多人也在跟你一样经历同样的迷茫和焦虑,但同时很多人也在跟你一样,努力地生活着,奋斗着。努力和奋斗的人值得掌声与尊重。
Everyone who leaves their hometown and works outside lead a hard life. But we should try our best to make this hard worthy. Do believe that you are not alone on the way of fighting because there are so many people facing the same situation together with you and there are also many people working hard and struggling for a better life like you. People that make efforts and struggle deserve applause and respect.
那些艰难困苦从成功人嘴里说出来是励志,从失败者口中说出来是埋怨。人生有且只有那么一回,不要吝啬你的力气和努力,你所谓的极限可能只是别人的起点。如果现在的你过得不如理想,那是说明,你还不够努力,你还不够好。
Said from the successful people, hardships is inspirational while from the loser, it is complaint. There is only one chance of life. Don’t out of the mouth say is complaining.One and only then one life, don't be stingy with your effort and hard work. Your so-called limit may only be the starting point of others.Now if your life is not as what you expect, that means you don’t work hard enough and you are not good enough.
愿可爱的你们每个春节都能带着你的努力成果骄傲地回家!加油!
Hope every lovely you can go back home with your efforts proudly every Spring Festival!Come on!