外贸谈判从零到千万不抛弃不放弃(附邮件原文)

我，FRANK，一个两年多经验的外贸新手，每天发着发信，忽然有天觉得：是不是不上的客户，就应该马上电话，总之就是要上，问清楚行还是不行(恰恰这点很简单，但很多新人都不到)。
马上发传真，大体上介绍了下公司及产品问对方的兴趣，客户没回复，后来打电话，告诉他email，客户回的第一封邮件摘要：
We checked shipping possibility from your port to our discharging port (Damietta Egypt) we found the following ;-
1. container loading is very expensive and we can not do .
2. we looking for Break Bulk loading for quantity about 3000m3 every single shipment ,we checked the shipping companies from our side but they are not interest to load this cargo .
看来难度不小，我们所在的城市港口很小，散装货轮一般都看不上。怎么？放弃？呵呵，不是我的作风。马上回信告诉客户，我能找，你先把量和目标价痛快的说出来。这客户很乖，又很不乖～～～
for your info, we can confirm immediately from 2500 up to 3000m3 board as follows;-
3.6mm = 200m3 @ $200
…………
this price is FOB + $40 up to $42/m3 freight .
这价格太离谱，差距不是一点两点，产品的规格还不大一样，没关系，生意人嘛，谁还不知道讨价还价这点破事儿，我跟你磨.我回复如下：
I will check the price tommorrow with shipping company. and for the FOB price I think it is really difficult for us . but anyway I will try my best to meet your target price. so I will quote you for CFR price tommorrow. Do you know any shipping companies that you are dealing with now? we can contact them.
客户给了我他现在用的货代的方式，
the companies which we are dealing with are thoresen , cosco and hyundai ,
but unfortunately they refused to load the cargo from south china for that
we rely on you to find a suitable shipping company .
经过我之后，他们压根没兴趣，因为量太少，根本不值得停靠一次我们的港口，怎么？只能多找，多撒网，靠我的劳动来弥补这个劣势。
终于找到三家愿意走货的，但是价格太高，比客户在连云港的高20美金每立方米。对于几千立方米的货物，这是个很大的差距。不管如何先报给客户再说，经过几轮讨价还价，最终客户确认了价格：
Re your offer and phone discussion,-
We can confirm the following ;
3.6 No sanding US$260.00 about 200m3
Kindly issue sales contract and send it back.
貌似该庆祝了吧？呵呵，definitely no。
因为还要跟船公司确认运价和运输方式，包装方式也要考虑。因为包装意味着成本。
再向客户要量，作为价码跟船公司谈，但是客户说有些规格由于我们不了所以量最多只能这样了。
3000m3 one shipment is no problem if you can follow our market standard
thickness which I explained before 11/14/17/21/24mm .
17mm we can get about 800m3 .
11mm about 500m3 .
so we can easily manage 3000m3 .
but if you don't do and we had to follow your thickness it will be according
to our yesterday e-mail .
hopefully you reconsider and revert with positive news to can start new long
business relationship
我的回复，如下：
1)the 9mm sanding board we quoted to you is our best price.and as we are sincecely to run a good business with you .we alaways quoted you our best price to you.also as you know ,our board is with good quality according to some other suppliers in china..even so ..our price is similar as the price of them..so I think our Products is more competitive than others and the board in your current market
2)11mm/17mm/ , the thickness above is difficult for us to produce.and the price is higher as we he quoted to you .if you can accept the price quoted ,,so we canproduce for you.
3)anyway.I will check the cost again to see if it is possible for 11/14 to reduce some rate for you.
4)please re-advice the quantity can be ok for 9mm(ifpossible),12mm,14mm,15mm,16mm,18mm,25mm.
客户对量进行了重新规划：
Re your below msg,
You he two alternatives,
A) 3.6 No sanding US$260 about 200m3
…………
if we add 250m3 9mm @ $240/m3 the total quantity will be = 2250m3
B) 3.6 No sanding US$260 about 200m3
…………
Total = 3000cbm
Kindly reconsider and cfm your forite option
鉴于与原来船公司谈判破裂，价格上涨，我的回复如下：
1)for 9mm,ok,we drop our profit,USD245.25 per CBM ,we only want to add this item to he the quantity to negotiate with shipping company,and it is very difficult to negotiate with shipping company with the quantity under 2500.and it is nearly impossible to negotiate under 2000CBM ,please confirm this price and do us a for.
2)as we quoted you the CFR price based on freight price USD55.00.and this is quoted from a shipping company.but now they increased the freight to be USD68.00.a crazy rate.
so we must find anoth